Why Nice Guys Finish Last & How to Attract a High Quality Partner — Dr. Robert Glover

Why do nice guys finish last, and how do you stop people pleasing? I sat down with Dr Robert Glover, a marriage and family therapist and author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, a book still selling more than 20 years after it came out.

Robert explains the three covert contracts nice guys live by, why healthy self-interest is not selfish, and how a live TV grilling from a Fox News host sealed his book deal. We get into the masculine and feminine polarity from The Way of the Superior Man, why arguing the facts of an emotional statement starts most couple fights, and why he says a men's group makes the change stick.

He also shares the phone change he asks every young man to make, how he learned to talk to anyone in public, and why he believes we are here to get our hearts broken.